One of the greatest tragedies that humans face at some point in their lives is unrequited love. For some, it happens day in and day out. Not once, but multiple times. Again and again. With different people. Unrequited love is selfless love. Love which survives on hope and hope alone.The hope that some day "that" person would love me back. That relentless waiting for messages, the divine smile which simply eases out as soon as the other person responds, the dreams of a life together. So unreal, yet so realistic. The search for happiness in this kind of love itself leads to all kinds of misery. Until one day, the person finally realizes his/her mistake. He has an enlightenment, something which can be defined as a self enlightenment. The fact that development of the "self" is the most important aspect in a person's life. Others try to ease out their pain with the help of alcohol, drugs, friends, self-help books and what not. But, no matter how hard you try, it is so damn difficult to move on. That is the fact! Accept it. Don't linger on it. Time is the best healer and will always be. Later when you'll think of those years you wasted, you'll laugh at the memories instead of crying over it. Emotions are natural. Just give yourself time. That is what you really need more than anyone else.
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